Do You Have…

IMG_0021That one (or two, or several) friend that, without fail, has made plans with you then made you sit there? You call, text, e-mail, and/or leave them a voicemail after waiting about an hour (or more) for them. With no response? Until eventually when you call it is immediately sent to voicemail. Your entire night was planned around this person who, after you personally realizing it, didn’t give a second thought about you and your plans together? Well, my darling husband and I have had this happen to us several times with the same ‘friend’ and, frankly, I will not tolerate it any longer! We will send him the hand-carved, hand-drawn Christmas gift I made him and call it good. If he wants to be a true friend then he needs to prove that our 8+ hours of waiting for his ass where he said to meet was worth it. Otherwise, thank you for being our friend when it was convenient for you, but we need to get on with our lives now. We will always love you and think of you fondly.

*There is no ‘HATE’ intended in this post. Just FRUSTRATION! The decent thing a ‘friend’ or any person, really, could do is show a little bit of RESPECT! We had plans, you broke them, time and time again. The failure is on us for believing this day would be any different from the past several times. It doesn’t take more than 10-30 seconds to text or reply back “Sorry. Can’t make it tonight.” We just ask that you would show us that much respect, at least, to give us the heads-up that you won’t be there.

*My beloved and I eventually turned our night of ‘waiting’ into a night out of our own. I thoroughly enjoyed our time together, just us!

P.S: Here is the hand-made gift they missed out on for tomorrows game.DPP_1405

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